Tuesday, May 1, 2018

One and Done

Becoming a mother has changed my life forever..like most women or parents for that matter.  Our little boy celebrated his fifth birthday this past January and watching him grow up has been amazing. As much as I love being a mother, I have no desire to have more children. See I'm still waiting on the "being a mother is the most rewarding job.." part. That hasn't exactly happened and I don't expect it will anytime soon.  Instead what I've learned is that we trade off one thing for another as our children enter different phases of life.  The terrible twos are replaced with a self defiant four year old.  That part I get but nonetheless, it's been a struggle. 

Often times when I'm out and I see other women with multiple children I think "How do they do it?" I quickly realize they have no other choice..they probably ask themselves the same question.  Of course I've had second thoughts when I see a chubby baby flash across my Instagram feed..but then I remember the sleepless nights..and the difficult pregnancy/recovery. Our little boy has asked for a little brother or sister and I've tried my best to explain to him that we wont be having more children. He understands...sometimes. 

Then there's the questions/advice from others...which honestly have slowed down as our child has gotten older.  Others are convinced that I will regret having one child or that our little one is missing out on having siblings. I've learned a long time ago to ignore unsolicited advice. I know most of these people have no ill intentions and aren't aware of the challenges I faced during my pregnancy. 

I don't feel guilty nor do I feel that my child will miss out on anything. It's much easier for me physically and mentally having a small family. He's happy..my husband is happy..I'm happy and in the end that's all that matters. 

Thursday, March 15, 2018

Finally Approved for Breast Reduction


I'm super excited to announce that my insurance company finally approved my breast reduction. It's been a long and often times frustrating process but I was very determined. Below is timeline of when I started my journey and the steps I took to get my insurance approval. 

2016 
I lost a little over 20 pounds..without trying mind you but my large breasts remained OUT OF CONTROL. I was still wearing a DDD.  I begin experiencing back pain and taking otc pain medication. After a horrible and stressful Summer, I began to seriously consider a breast reduction. I also started seeing a chiropractor

My then OBGYN gave me several plastic surgeon referrals. Nearly all of them didn't accept insurance and the one that did required that I go through several months of physical therapy. I put the thoughts of surgery on hold and continue to take my meds. 

2017
I had alot going on this year. I'd gotten engaged the year before and was planning a Spring wedding. My back pain started to creep up so I made seeing a chiropractor a priority. I'd meet my medical deductible by February so I was receiving adjustments several times a week. I'd also joined a gym.  I made several appointments to see my doctor and was finally placed on meds.  I knew further documentation would only aid in me getting approved.. By the Fall, I was ready to approach a new plastic surgeon. 

During my visit with the plastic surgeon, the office staff was very reluctant in submitting the paperwork to my insurance. One lady even mentioned that she'd only known of Cigna to approve one case for breast reduction. I remained positive throughout the entire ordeal. I took an assessment and photos were taken of my breasts. The surgeon lifted my breasts up to where they should go..which is comical in itself and mentioned that I would be a full C after the reduction. I immediately pictured myself in strapless sun dresses. 

Now due to the change in my insurance, it was agreed that we would hold off till next year to submit the paperwork.

2018
Within the first two weeks of the new year, I contacted the plastic surgeon's office with my insurance info. The young lady didn't request for my medical records at the time but my paperwork was submitted..easy enough. Within a week I received a letter from Cigna stating that they would not cover the procedure. They felt it was not medically necessary. What? Did they not see the photos of my breasts? The letter went on to state: records do not show you completed at least one continuous three month trial of conservative treatment, such as weight loss, NSAIDS. They also apparently had not received the photos the surgeon took. 

I immediately decided to go through the appeal process. I contacted my doctor's office to get more documentation. I went to my gym and asked if they could provide a record of my gym visits. The chiropractor even included a letter recommending the surgery.  Once I gathered everything, I had over 40 pages of documentation. All of the paperwork was resubmitted to Cigna and within two weeks I received another letter that the surgery had been approved. I was so excited and immediately shared the news with my husband. 

Cigna has a strict timeline for the surgery and I basically had a window of four months to have the surgeon performed. Thankfully I have a flexible work schedule so I was able to schedule my surgery for May. 

So now that brings us to the current day. I've been doing more research on post care after the surgery and have been watching several other YouTubers journey. So far everyone has had great experiences. I've slowly been purchasing some "must haves" for recovery while remaining realistic. Most women seem very nervous with their surgery however this isn't my first time going under. I've had two ovarian cysts removed and a c-section. 

I will schedule another appointment with my surgeon to discuss further details and after that the count down begins. I'll be tracking my journey and checking in time to time on my blog. 


Sunday, February 11, 2018

Keeping the Flu Away: Ginger Tea

The flu has been cruel the past few months, claiming the lives of many including 63 children. By now many of us know at least one person who has caught the flu. Point blank...it's been a bad flu season. 

We tend to be proactive in our household by taking daily vitamins/supplements and treating symptoms as they come up. Last month though I was battling a sore throat that just would not go away..until I discovered homemade ginger tea. I initially pinned a couple of posts on Pinterest but took to YouTube to see how one could actually make the tea. I ended up on Elderberry Creek Farm's channel and found a great diy video




I high tailed to the store and to get fresh ginger and lemons.  In less than an hour, I had my own homemade ginger tea. I replaced the cayenne pepper with turmeric though. I drunk the tea every 3 hours and within 24 hours my sore throat was GONE. When my husband developed a sinus infection a few weeks later I whipped up another batch of the tea. Granted he wasn't as consistent but it was still beneficial. 




The next time you find yourself starting to get the sniffles, I'd highly recommend making this tea. Stay healthy this season family!!


Monday, January 29, 2018

I GOTTA DO BETTER...

I'm perhaps one of the worse bloggers in the world. I haven't been consistent and my content has been random as hell. I have a laundry list of goals this year but one I need to seriously consider is posting more often. I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the best writer.... however that's just an excuse. The more I'll write..the better I'll get. Right? Hopefully? Sigh...Fact is..I need do better with this blog.


This month I will focus on content creation and update my editorial calendar. Not every post will be hair related as my YouTube channel has grown into much more than just beauty content.

Thank you all for being patient with me..and I promise not to stay away for too long.

One and Done

Becoming a mother has changed my life forever..like most women or parents for that matter.  Our little boy celebrated his fifth birthday th...